Happiness keeps You Sweet,
The IRS keeps you broke.
Trials keep You Strong,
The IRS keeps you broke.
Trials keep You Strong,
Sorrows keep You Human,
Failures keep You Humble,
Success keeps You Glowing,
But Only Buddies keep You Going!
XOXO
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
It's a New Day...
And that means New Beginnings!
I went on strike in my house! I am tired of being over worked, taken advantage of, walked on, used, and not enjoying life anymore. I bend over backwards to get everyone where they need to go, schedule everything, meetings, appts., school, church, doctors, homework, errands, sports, take me here, i need this....ENOUGH!!!
For the last 6 months, I have been the doormat and chaueffer. I have been the maid, the cook, the laundrymat, personal shopper and nurse. Not one Thank You. Not one "I appreciate you". Not one smile. Not one hug. Not anything!
And then it all blows up and guess who's fault it is??? Yep! They all blamed me!
So guess what? I quit!
I can't go to your appts for you. I can't go to school for you. I can't play the sport for you. I can't live your life for you. I can't live MY life because I'm living as your servant. And no one is happy. Especially ME! And when Mama's not happy, ain't no one happy.
So Monday night I let them have it. I threw in the towel. They were scared. They looked very scared. They've never seen Mom like this. What does this mean? Are you telling me I had the good life and now it's gone? Yep...that's what it means!
I told them my job was to provide Housing, clothes and food. That's it! And from now on that was all they were going to get!
Yesterday, I did the laundry (clean clothes), I worked my job (to pay for housing) and I cooked dinner (food). That's all! I was VERY quiet all day. Didn't talk to anyone. Didn't chit chat. Didn't answer questions to me (I'm making a point). And I didn't check on homework. And at 8pm last night my son freaked out because he forgot to do his homework and "why didn't you remind me?" came out of his mouth! And I smiled. My plan is working.
After school yesterday, my son was bothered with my quietness. So he tested the waters. Asked me questions. He started out simple and when those didn't get answered, he upped the anty. But still nothing! He was very scared. Next thing I know...he's bringing up the folded laundry and putting every ones away. Then I hear the Vacuum, downstairs and the upstairs. Then I hear him cleaning his sisters room (which was a mess after having a sleep over this weekend). Then I hear dishes being done.
He kept letting me know after each job was done what he had done. I guess he thought he deserved a pat on the back or a checklist being marked off. Mom didn't get a pat on the back or her list checked off. They just kept adding to it. Hmmm...my plan is working.
Hubby is on that lists too. He stayed clear of me last night. And he snuck out the door to work this morning.
I don't know how long I will keep this up. I usually cave in before them. I can't stand not helping them out. But I feel much better today. Woke up and it's a new day, and that means a new beginning. Amen!
XOXO
I went on strike in my house! I am tired of being over worked, taken advantage of, walked on, used, and not enjoying life anymore. I bend over backwards to get everyone where they need to go, schedule everything, meetings, appts., school, church, doctors, homework, errands, sports, take me here, i need this....ENOUGH!!!
For the last 6 months, I have been the doormat and chaueffer. I have been the maid, the cook, the laundrymat, personal shopper and nurse. Not one Thank You. Not one "I appreciate you". Not one smile. Not one hug. Not anything!
And then it all blows up and guess who's fault it is??? Yep! They all blamed me!
So guess what? I quit!
I can't go to your appts for you. I can't go to school for you. I can't play the sport for you. I can't live your life for you. I can't live MY life because I'm living as your servant. And no one is happy. Especially ME! And when Mama's not happy, ain't no one happy.
So Monday night I let them have it. I threw in the towel. They were scared. They looked very scared. They've never seen Mom like this. What does this mean? Are you telling me I had the good life and now it's gone? Yep...that's what it means!
I told them my job was to provide Housing, clothes and food. That's it! And from now on that was all they were going to get!
Yesterday, I did the laundry (clean clothes), I worked my job (to pay for housing) and I cooked dinner (food). That's all! I was VERY quiet all day. Didn't talk to anyone. Didn't chit chat. Didn't answer questions to me (I'm making a point). And I didn't check on homework. And at 8pm last night my son freaked out because he forgot to do his homework and "why didn't you remind me?" came out of his mouth! And I smiled. My plan is working.
After school yesterday, my son was bothered with my quietness. So he tested the waters. Asked me questions. He started out simple and when those didn't get answered, he upped the anty. But still nothing! He was very scared. Next thing I know...he's bringing up the folded laundry and putting every ones away. Then I hear the Vacuum, downstairs and the upstairs. Then I hear him cleaning his sisters room (which was a mess after having a sleep over this weekend). Then I hear dishes being done.
He kept letting me know after each job was done what he had done. I guess he thought he deserved a pat on the back or a checklist being marked off. Mom didn't get a pat on the back or her list checked off. They just kept adding to it. Hmmm...my plan is working.
Hubby is on that lists too. He stayed clear of me last night. And he snuck out the door to work this morning.
I don't know how long I will keep this up. I usually cave in before them. I can't stand not helping them out. But I feel much better today. Woke up and it's a new day, and that means a new beginning. Amen!
XOXO
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
What a night...
So last night was either one of the worst nights ever or it will turn out to be one of the best in the long run. Either way - I'm done! Throwing in the towel. Thought this was very appropriate for the mood...
One Flaw In Women
Women have strengths that amaze men.....
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideas.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give.
HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN, IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.
XOXO
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Thought for the day...
"Do not lose your inward peace for anything whatsoever, even if your whole world seems upset. You must pause your movements and be silent within your self, you will then...have the peace to begin again the way to your chosen path."
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Ash Wednesday...
So we went to church last night for Ash Wednesday. Our son sat with his confirmation class, so it was just us and our daughter and my 5 yr old nephew. Just as the Mass was about to start, an elderly lady sat behind us who must have just spritzed herself with perfume on her way to church. When Emily blurts out "Ew mom, what is that smell? It stinks in here" and to make matters worse she starts dramatically fanning the air around her and making a gagging sound.
*I wanted to crawl under the bench and die right there*
Then as we get to the communion part, my nephew tells Emily that it's time for the "wafer". Emily looks at me and says loudly as the Mass pauses for silence, "Mom, I'm not eating that. What is it, Bread? A Cookie? That looks gross!"
*Lightening strike me NOW*
Then the priest is blessing the wine and my nephew looks at me and says "Why does he get soda at church?"
*Anytime now Lightening*
For some reason they did not have the air conditioning on and it was packed inside for the special service. And it got very hot in there with so many bodies. Emily and my Nephew start fanning themselves in the air and whispering loudly "oh I'm so hot, I think I have to sit down and not listen anymore".
God, Please forgive the young ones...they do not know the ways yet. *sigh*
XOXO
*I wanted to crawl under the bench and die right there*
Then as we get to the communion part, my nephew tells Emily that it's time for the "wafer". Emily looks at me and says loudly as the Mass pauses for silence, "Mom, I'm not eating that. What is it, Bread? A Cookie? That looks gross!"
*Lightening strike me NOW*
Then the priest is blessing the wine and my nephew looks at me and says "Why does he get soda at church?"
*Anytime now Lightening*
For some reason they did not have the air conditioning on and it was packed inside for the special service. And it got very hot in there with so many bodies. Emily and my Nephew start fanning themselves in the air and whispering loudly "oh I'm so hot, I think I have to sit down and not listen anymore".
God, Please forgive the young ones...they do not know the ways yet. *sigh*
XOXO
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